Not So Mr Nice Guy!

Ok so I don't know about everyone else out their, but when it comes to time, my timing seems to be always at the wrong time. Time is a natural and bound thing, yet in a fraction even the smallest moment in time, your life can go to a high, to even higher, to greatness, to straight below 0 and then sit there trying to crawl back up through the rubble its stuck in!

Now I know there are a lot of people out there, some better than others and some who go their own way. But me, I like to be out there to care to help and to show the world who i really am (yes a Christian of course) but just how a girl should be treated, how a brother should be, how a man should be known on the street.

So here goes my “Not So Mr Nice Guy Theory”

We live in a world, a world full of corruption and of things we all seem to agree to disagree on. Which is fine, we all have our ideas, religions, and meaning to life. That's fine – I'm not out to judge, but I try to represent (as said before) who I am and try to bring the best out in people. Treat them with the very respect they deserve. When I try to follow integrity, be real and be honest it always seems to come crushing down. "I'm in a catch 22!, and that saying "honesty is the best policy", seems to be the ironic thing which blew it all up!" Now after doing what was right, all I can seem to think is when being the nice guy it always seem to be the worst. The nice guy seems to be that one who is there when no one else is, the one who cares when others make it unfair, the one who encourages when the rest bring doubt, the one who builds you up when the world brings you down, the one who is honest and loyal in all his ways when others seem to be lurking around and hiding reality, the one who would do anything for you when the rest  leave it all for you, the one who wouldn't make it hard but make it easy, the one who wouldn't be out to hinder but to guide, one who is ready, when the world is still getting ready, the one who would drop it all when the others would delay – what i am really trying to say is all we do, all I do is with the best intentions,  I do it to avoid the hurt, the wrong and issues. But the ironic thing is time is the very thing which hurts more than reality, because it only needs a moment in time to change and when the hardest thing seems to be the only choice – be ready for it because it wont be come down easy.

Look we have all made our fair share of mistakes! We have also all made a fair share of hard choices, harder than you know. But what I must clarify is there is more to what meets the eye in every circumstance – you can either take it or leave it but not all things need to be at their fullest to be at their greatest.

 

“Not all things need to be at their fullest to be at their greatest.” – Chris Furlong